With sexual abuse by clergy being so widespread, victims are everywhere, but they may feel very alone. Sexual abuse victims need to have a place to turn when they have questions or concerns. Deciding to come forward with stories of abuse is a very difficult decision, bringing back many painful memories. The support of friends and family is extremely helpful, but often those who have been abused feel alienated from family, friends, community and church. They need to speak with someone who has had the same feelings, someone who knows what they are going through.

SNAP, the Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests, is committed to providing support to victims as well as bringing an end to the culture of abuse prevalent in the church. SNAP was started in 1988 by Barbara Blaine. The group provides an opportunity for those who have been victims of abuse to receive support from someone who has had similar experiences. Local SNAP chapters have monthly meetings for victims to discuss their concerns and offer support to one another.

Members of the group are also focused on educating others about the dangers of sexual abuse by the clergy. By increasing awareness, SNAP hopes that more victims will feel comfortable coming forward with their stories. If more people come forward, the community will better understand the issues that victims are facing, and help put an end to the abuse.

Part of SNAP's mission is focused on helping victims hold their abusers and church superiors responsible for the hurt caused by the abuse. At Plattner Verderame, we have received referrals from SNAP, and have helped sexual abuse victims recover damages for the harm done by the priests and church officials. Those responsible for these actions must be held accountable for what they have done in order to prevent future abuse from occurring. If you have been sexually abused by a priest or minister, do not be afraid to seek help and share your story.